Why are guys soo confusing ?!?

Okayy soo.. theres this guy, hes pretty cute and i think im starting to like him.. cept i dnt want my feelings to get to strong just in case he dosnt feel the same about me :/.. But its hard to tell because well we've onlii met twice and both times we've hooked up, but havent gone all the way. The first time he was reallii pushy but the second time was different and he was reallii nice about it and we had like a little talk about things before hand. we talk a bit through facebook inbox and he asked for my msn we talk on there for a bit. He asked me if it felt right wen were hooking up. i sed i felt comfortable around him and asked him the same question he sed it felt natural for him and hes hooked up with a few girls and none of them felt natural except me nd his ex that he dated for two years. he also talks about how good it is to be cuddeling in bed with someone wen its raining and hes gunna take me out wen the moons full and just chill outside.. he also comments on most of my statuses that have sumthing to do with being cuddled or my statuses that say sumthing about not having a good day.. but heres the weird part, i feel like im always starting the conversations, nd im not sure wether im annoying him or not.. its so confusing and i wish i knew wat he thought..